Deacon Matthew Hecker

Deacon Matthew Hecker spent more than 30 years in education, from a parish youth director, a high-school teacher and coach, to later earning degrees in counseling and educational administration and serving at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln as dean of students. He was the first permanent deacon ordained for the Diocese of Lincoln in 2021.

Dr. Hecker and his wife Dani are members of St. Joseph Parish in Lincoln. They have three children and two grandchildren. He is Catholic chaplain for the Lincoln/Lancaster County Chaplaincy Corps, and has worked in Diocese of Lincoln Family Life & Discipleship Office and Office of Communications, as Superintendent of Schools and director of the Permanent Diaconate Program.

Events with Deacon Matthew Hecker

Wild at Heart retreat for Young Men
May 15 - 17, 2026

Wild at Heart May 15-17, 2026 with Deacon Matthew Hecker Discovering the secret of a man’s soul (ages 21-39) The retreat will begin on Friday with an 8pm Rosary and Mass. The retreat will conclude Sunday with Mass and noon lunch. Deep in the heart of every man lies a longing for adventure, a battle to fight, and a beauty to rescue. Yet many men find themselves feeling restless, uncertain, or disconnected. This retreat offers young men a powerful opportunity to rediscover who God created them to be. Deacon Matthew Hecker invites men ages 21-39 to embark on a journey…